These are my thoughts on what happens in my world... all viewed through a Christian lens.
Wednesday, February 26, 2014
Baseball is Back
To fill the void I've coached a little, played a little softball, gone to MLB and MiLB games, cheered from the stands of Tee-ball and Cal Ripken League and now Babe Ruth games, and logged thousands upon thousands of hours watching games on TV.
With all that baseball, I still get giddy when pitchers and catchers report to Spring Training in early February; I still set aside time to read and watch games or highlights of the first game in Spring Training; I still consider Opening Day of the season one of the greatest days of the year; I still get a little sad when the final out of the last game of the World Series is recorded each year.
So strike up the band to play "Take Me Out to the Ball Game" and update the iScore app on the iPad. It's time for baseball!
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
It's the Economy, Stupid!
Bush 41 had a 90% approval rating following the ground invasion of Iraq. But economic troubles turned the tide. He soon would have a 64% disapproval rating. The Clinton Campaign won the election in part by constantly resounding, "It's the economy, stupid." The banter deflected the discussion of Bill Clinton's morality (or immorality).
I'm reading articles today of a skirmish in Arizona between those who claim a bill awaiting the governor's signature is protecting religious liberty or encouraging oppression of homosexuals. The bill narrowly passed both chambers of the state legislature; the governor has until Saturday to sign it into law, veto the bill, or let it become law without her signature.
Homosexual America is weighing in. Corporate America is, too, as entities like Microsoft and the NFL hint or outright threaten not to do business in the state if the bill becomes law.
Conservatives are weighing in, too. Rush Limbaugh said the the governor is being "bullied" to allow the homosexual agenda to advance. But not all conservatives agree. John McCain (is he really a conservative?) is urging the governor to veto the bill.
"It's the economy, stupid." I'm concerned that the governor and many others in the state (like three state senators who voted FOR the bill but now oppose it since the economic threats began) will put the economy above religious liberty.
Remember when Southern Baptists boycotted just about everything they (we) considered immoral? Remember the beating administered by the media?
Those who side with the homosexual agenda are, in effect, threatening to boycott the state of Arizona if this bill passes. But where it the outrage?
There is no outrage because the media long ago stopped reporting and turned to social engineering. Admittedly, the conservative media does the same thing.
There is no outrage because the economic boycott furthers the agenda the media supports.
I have no way of knowing what the governor will do but my gut feeling is that she will bow to the economic pressure to support the homosexual agenda. If so, mark it up as another win for the advancement of homosexuality in our culture. That certainly has been the trend lately.
If the threat of economic boycott works in Arizona, expect it to be used more and more.
"It's the economy, stupid!" That seems to be a good argument to deflect attention away from morality.
Getting It Right
Tuesday, February 18, 2014
Leadership In A Small Membership Church
In an article about leadership in a small membership church, Lovett H. Weems, Jr. offers this principle:
Keeping sights on both the heritage and the future can be hard. You may know of churches (of any size) who are so much the same church they were a generation ago that they aren't reaching their potential for this or the next generation. Rarely is the cutting edge technology or methodology of one generation sufficient for the next. The same is true for the church.Leading "in the middle." To be a leader is to live in the middle – in the tension between a future vision and the current reality. This tension is inherent if a leader becomes the steward of God's vision for the congregation. One cannot give in to the current reality and abandon the vision to which God is calling the church. Nor can one simply lift up the vision and ignore the realities. To be a leader means to stay with the tension. It also means to stay with the people. Remember, people in the small membership church often are people who are living on the edge – geographically, economically, theologically, and culturally. They know whether you are living with them or not.
Sunday, February 16, 2014
Found Faithful
The best-known example of his faith is found in Genesis 22. God had promised Abraham that he would bless all nations through Abraham's descendants. Isaac was a young teenager and was, in Abraham's estimation, the answer to the promise.
But God told Abraham to sacrifice his own son. And Abraham was willing to obey God completely. But with Isaac dead, how would God keep his promise? Abraham might have thought that answers to such questions were above his pay scale. Instead of question God, Abraham trusted God.
Faith and obedience and trust always go together. When braided like a cord, these three become the fiber of which godly men and women are made.
Isaac and the promise. Those thoughts must have filled Abraham's mind as he hiked to Mt. Moriah with his son, some wood, and fire.
But no lamb for the sacrifice. Even Isaac noticed. Rarely will you know what's waiting at the top of the test while you are still on the path.
God provided a ram for the sacrifice. Isaac was spared. Abraham proved faithful. God revealed himself as Jehovah Jireh - "The LORD Will Provide."
It is likely that God will call you to some task that will require faith. How will you respond? Faithful? or Faithless?
If you respond with obedience and trust, you will be found faithful just like Abraham. Let's pray for each other so that when the test comes we will be found faithful.
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
Who's Left Behind
I'm praying today Terry's family.
Can you imagine a family not missing their loved one? A lot of reasons go into this, including love, memories, and responsibilities. Terry loved his family and they love him. They have terrific memories of hunting and fishing, traveling, and generations. And Terry was one of the most responsible men I've known. At home, work, church, or community, we could count on Terry.
There's no doubt about missing him.
I also like to think about Terry's legacy. What did he leave behind? Or better, who did he leave behind? Terry let behind a family of hard-working, fun-loving folks who are committed to each other and to the Lord. I can't think of a better legacy.
Billionaires are giving away fortunes to endow philanthropic activities. Terry's legacy is greater.
Athletes are winning gold medals and announcing retirement to the roar of the crowds. Terry's legacy is greater.
A movie star passed away this week and the celeb-shows tout her on- and off-screen achievements. Terry's legacy is greater.
What are you doing regarding a legacy? You'll leave one whether you try or not. People will look at your life after you're gone. We'll talk about you, too. What will we say?
May it be said, like it is of Terry McCallister, that I loved my family and my Lord.
Thursday, February 06, 2014
Atheists and Jesus Statues
Thursday, January 30, 2014
Loneliness
He knows my name.He know my every thought.He sees each tear that fallsAnd hears me when I call.
"He Knows My Name"
Monday, January 27, 2014
What I Plan To Do Tomorrow
- Get up around 6:00 (that pretty much depends on when Lexi wants fed)
- Pray for family, friends, church
- Catch up on my Daily Bible Reading (I'm a day behind)
- Head to Sherwood for the Evangelism Conference (missed today's sessions)
- Have lunch at Mugs Cafe in North Little Rock
- Check on a few families in the church
- Plan and prepare for Sunday's worship service
- Have supper with Deana and Riley
- Practice music for Sunday with our praise team
- Check social media and play Words with Friends
- Get to bed around 9:30
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Amazed
I stand amazed in the presence of Jesus the NazareneAnd wonder how He could love me - a sinner, condemned, unclean.
When Jesus had finished saying these things, the crowds were amazed at his teaching, because he taught as one who had authority, and not as their teachers of the law.
Thursday, January 23, 2014
Relationship Foundations
Wives, be submissive to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.Husbands, love your wives and don't be bitter toward them.Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so they won't become discouraged.Slaves, obey your human masters in everything. Don't work only while being watched, in order to please men, but work wholeheartedly, fearing the Lord. Whatever you do, do it enthusiastically, as something done for the Lord and not for men, knowing that you will receive the reward of an inheritance from the Lord. You serve the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for whatever wrong he has done, and there is no favoritism.Masters, supply your slaves with what is right and fair, since you know that you too have a Master in heaven.
Wives, submit.Husbands, love.Children, obey.Fathers, do not exasperate.Slaves, obey.Masters, supply.
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
Coy Must Be Laughing
Coy was a member of a church I pastored. He was an older gentleman who had a great sense of humor. Coy would ask me every few months when I was going to preach about wives submitting to their husbands. Then he'd laugh real big.
Coy was a trouble-maker!
I was going to be away from the church on a particular Sunday and I was tempted to ask Coy if he would preach for me and if he would preach any text I chose. I would've chosen Colossians 3:18 or Ephesians 5:22. I'm sure he would have turned me down. And he would have laughed real big.
Why are wives more interested in their husbands obeying what Paul said (to love their wives) than they are in obeying Paul's words to them? Every time I've gotten close to this passage, one of the women in my church groans and quickly points out the husbands' responsibilities.
You might say that I'm one blessed pastor. I am teaching the book of Colossians verse by verse on Wednesday nights. One Wednesday each month, I lead a study on missions instead. And we've missed a few Wednesdays for weather or special services. Last Wednesday night, the ladies in our church began a Bible study that will take them away from my group for a few weeks.
I say all that to say that I'm blessed because most of the women will not be in my Bible study tonight when I talk about what it means for wives to submit to their husbands. I'm blessed because I won't have to deal with the fussing (and flat out refusal) that usually accompanies the topic.
But that's not really good. If someone fusses about something the Bible says and refuses to do it, well they just aren't acting like Christians are to act.
It must be hard to submit. It must be hard for husbands to love their wives like Christ loved the church, too. Otherwise, our families would be stronger. And stronger families are the building blocks for stronger churches and a stronger society.
Maybe it's not a blessing that the women will not be in the Bible study tonight. I guess I'll have to post more on the blog. Or preach this passage on a Sunday morning. Or print out my notes and mail them to them.
Anonymously, of course.
I can hear Coy laughing.
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
Be Wise
Me: "Do y'all have the code readers?"
Her: "Yes, we do."
Me: "Can I come by anytime?"
Her: "Yes. Come before dark, though, because we don't go outside after dark."
You have to be wise and know your surroundings. You have to know the dangers and take practical steps to avoid them.The AutoZone management is wise to have this policy.
Christians have to be wise, too. Life can be a journey through a dark alley. Characters are lurking in the shadows to take advantage of you. Everyone is susceptible to temptation. James wrote to believers that temptation starts not with the tempter but within the tempted. Our own evil desires are the breeding ground for temptation. Our own evil desires are the playground for the tempter.
Satan - the devil - knows how to play the game. He's been doing it for thousands of years. And he's good at it. He knows the weaknesses that are common to us and specific to you. His toolbox is full of gadgets well-worn from use. How it must thrill him to see his tactics work again and again.
So we must be wise. In Proverbs we read, "Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life" (Prov 4:23). That wellspring should be kept pure by guarding our senses and filtering out the bad stuff. What we see, hear, taste, touch, and smell can get the mind working in the wrong direction. The wellspring is then polluted and we make decisions to take the bait and fall for the temptation.
Guard your heart by bathing it in God's word. Spending some time in the Bible each day is so important. I talk about it a lot and still cannot overstate its importance. It's a "what-goes-in-comes-out" kind of thing. If you fill your mind with God's word then you can easily detect falsehood and steer clear of it. You are less likely to be taken captive by the temptations when scripture is in your heart, on your mind, and rolling off your tongue.
Guard your heart by setting up parameters to keep you from stuff you shouldn't see or hear. We have DirecTV in our home. As I scroll through the channel guide I come across some stuff I don't want my family and me to watch. Do you know that you can block those channels from showing on the guide? By customizing the channel guide I am keeping those options away from my family. That's a simple but effective way to guard our hearts. And you have to have conversations with your children about what is and isn't appropriate and why inappropriate stuff is out there. Start early and hold your ground. I'm not saying that your 16 year old can only watch G-rated movies, but you need to teach her what she can and cannot watch and why. She'll be making more and more decisions on her own and you have to lay the foundation for her good decisions.
Guard your heart by being accountable to others. I need to confess something: I have very few close friends. If you are like me you may feel alone. Alone is good sometimes. Alone can be bad. Alone can lead to depression. Alone can lead to bad choices. You need two or three friends to be accountable with. Talk with them regularly and talk about the tough topics of sexual and financial accountability. Talk about marriage and parenting. Talk about your walk with the Lord. It's just wise to do this.
And don't flirt with temptation. Three steps requires more effort than one. The further away from temptation you stay, the easier it is to stay away from it. Be wise. Guard your heart.
If the neighborhood is dangerous after dark then don't go outside after dark! It just makes sense to me.
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Monday, January 13, 2014
Do You See God's Hand?
Tuesday, January 07, 2014
Stress and Jobs
- Enlisted military personnel
- Military general
- Firefighter
- Airline pilot
- Event coordinator
- Public relations executive
- Senior corporate executive
- Newspaper reporter
- Police officer
- Taxi Driver
- Audiologist
- Hair stylist
- Jeweler
- Tenured university professor
- Seamstress/tailor
- Dietitian
- Medical records tech
- Librarian
- Multimedia artist
- Drill press operator
Monday, January 06, 2014
Thinking Beyond Ourselves
When I sit down to plan I think about what I can do, what I want to do, what I've done before...
That's too much I!
This indicates a flaw in perspective. A flaw in theology.
God has a grand purpose and design. He chooses to us me but not because of what I bring to the table. Can you imagine God looking around the earth, spotting me, and thinking, "Oh, boy! There's Bob. I'd never be able to do this without him!"? No, I can't imagine that either.
Instead, I believe God shows his glory to me and through me by using me in something that is greater than me.
Paul put it this way.
I am a common vessel. We are common vessels. God is God.
But God uses me. He uses us. God empowers us to be more than we are and to do more than we can.
Maybe God does choose to use me because of what I bring to the table: nothing! It's in my weakness that his strength is known. It's in my inability that his ability is magnified.
I'll be honest. It frustrates me when Christians look at their limitations or failures or obstacles and plan accordingly. We set goals that we can reach, whether it's a missions offering, an outreach event, or a high attendance Sunday.
Hopefully, I'm not out of line in making this application of scripture. In Matthew 6 Jesus says that if we do "acts of righteousness" purposefully out in the open so everyone can see, then the praise of those in our earthly audience is the only praise we'll get. But if we do them to honor God rather than to honor ourselves, he blesses us.
Is it possible that when we aim for something that we think we can hit, even reaching the goal leaves us empty? Is trying to meet our expectations rather than seeing God work in miraculous ways going to leave us with a false sense of accomplishment rather than experiencing the awesome glory of God?
I've often said that a church is not considered large or small because of the number of people who attend it but because of its vision. I pastor what would be considered a small membership church but I refuse to have a "small church" mentality because I believe God will do great things through any group of believers who seek his goals rather than their own.
So when we plan we use an abundance of hope and optimism and expectation with only a dash of realism. By this I mean that we realistically consider our earthly resources but never underestimate our heavenly resources.
Flipping the recipe shows more dependence upon ourselves rather than faith in God. The right mix shows we believe God can take all that we offer him and multiply the results. A story comes to mind of a little boy with five loaves of bread and two fish. The disciples said, "That's not enough." Jesus said, "It'll do. Watch this."
I'm ready to watch what God can do. And to be part of it.
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Friday, January 03, 2014
Faces in the Crowd
- Confess and repent of any sin that might be associated with the disappointment.
- Study the Bible on your own and with a small group of friends to help you know God and his will.
- Get active in ministry through a local church so God can work in you and through you to accomplish awesome things.
Why are you downcast, O my soul?Why so disturbed within me?Put your hope in God,for I will yet praise him,my Savior and my God. (Psalm 42)
Thursday, January 02, 2014
2014 Forecast
Monday, December 16, 2013
On Marriage
Of course, the moral revolution that has transformed marriage in our times did not start with the demand for legal same-sex marriage. It did not begin with homosexuality at all, but with the sexual libertinism that demanded (and achieved) a separation of marriage and sex, liberating sex from the confines of marriage. So sex was separated from marriage, and then sex was separated from the expectation of procreation and child-rearing. Marriage was separated from sex, sex was separated from reproduction, and the revolution was launched. Adding to the speed of this revolution, then, was the advent of no-fault divorce and the transformation of marriage into a tentative and often temporary contract.
Thursday, December 12, 2013
Some Things Are Hidden; Some Things Must Not Be
The Bible study I lead on Wednesday nights for adults has been in the book of Colossians since late-August. I started the third chapter last night. Yes, that's two chapters in about three months. To be fair, we've had a few Wednesdays when we've had other things scheduled. So it's more like eight or nine lessons covering two chapters. I should finish the study of Colossians in February. That's about six months...which is shorter than the twelve months it took to teach the book of James.
The first four verses of the third chapter contain a sentence that caused me to really think about what it means to live the Christian life: "your life is now hidden with Christ in God" in verse three.
One way to think about this is that our life - specifically, our eternal life - is secure with Christ just as your car is secure when parked in the garage out of sight. Thieves are less likely to steal your car when it is out of sight. Vandals aren't likely to damage your car when it's hidden in the garage. So the Christian's life is secure - totally secure - with Christ, who died for our salvation. This fact should give us confidence and hope as we live here and now.
Another way to think about our life being hidden is that the reason we trust Christ for salvation and live for him is a mystery to those who do not know Christ. Paul wrote in a letter to Christians in Corinth that spiritual things (like salvation) are considered foolishness to unbelievers because they do not have God's Spirit to help them understand spiritual things. So the hope of eternal life Christians have and the reason for living as we do is hidden from those who do not believe because these are spiritual things.
Both of these explanations of the passage lead me to wonder, "Do we sometimes live a Christian life that is TOO hidden?" Do you know people who profess to be Christians but don't live like it? Do you know someone who thinks he is a Christian but none of his friends know he is? In other words, is his Christian life hidden?
Is it even possible to be a hidden Christian? Aren't Christians supposed to be visible? Shouldn't we be the light of the world? "A city on a hill cannot be hidden"! (See Matthew 5:14-16) How will those who do not know Christ as Savior ever know him without a witness? And that witness comes from those of us who are believers. We have to speak up and live out our faith openly.
The reason we place our trust in Christ for salvation and the reason we live in obedience to him and the reason we have hope of eternal life may be hidden from them, but the fact that we follow Christ and the impact he's had on our lives must be out in the open so they can see and hear our witness. Then the Holy Spirit can use our witness to reveal the mystery to them and they might be saved.
