Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Who's Left Behind

Today would have been Terry McCallister's 56th birthday. But Terry passed away suddenly, unexpectedly on February 1. I would guess that every birthday, anniversary, and holiday will be hard for his family, but the "firsts" seem to be hardest. And this comes so quickly on the heels of his death and burial.

I'm praying today Terry's family.

Can you imagine a family not missing their loved one? A lot of reasons go into this, including love, memories, and responsibilities. Terry loved his family and they love him. They have terrific memories of hunting and fishing, traveling, and generations. And Terry was one of the most responsible men I've known. At home, work, church, or community, we could count on Terry.

There's no doubt about missing him.

I also like to think about Terry's legacy. What did he leave behind? Or better, who did he leave behind? Terry let behind a family of hard-working, fun-loving folks who are committed to each other and to the Lord. I can't think of a better legacy.

Billionaires are giving away fortunes to endow philanthropic activities. Terry's legacy is greater.

Athletes are winning gold medals and announcing retirement to the roar of the crowds. Terry's legacy is greater.

A movie star passed away this week and the celeb-shows tout her on- and off-screen achievements. Terry's legacy is greater.

What are you doing regarding a legacy? You'll leave one whether you try or not. People will look at your life after you're gone. We'll talk about you, too. What will we say?

May it be said, like it is of Terry McCallister, that I loved my family and my Lord.

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